7 Types of Toxic People in the Workplace (and Why Gen Z Won’t Tolerate Them)
- Astrid van Essen
- Sep 16
- 4 min read
Think you can spot toxic people easily? The truth is, many of them hide in plain sight. They can appear helpful, supportive, even charismatic — until their behaviour begins to chip away at your confidence and peace of mind.
Toxic colleagues and leaders are nothing new, but today’s younger generation of professionals is less willing to tolerate them. Gen Z and younger Millennials prioritise mental health, work–life balance, and healthy cultures. For them, toxic workplaces are not just unpleasant — they’re dealbreakers.
Recent research confirms what many employees already know: toxic behaviour directly harms performance, engagement, and retention. A 2025 systematic review found that toxic workplaces increase stress, lower life satisfaction, and decrease productivity. Meanwhile, McKinsey highlights that toxic behaviour is the single largest predictor of employee burnout — more than workload, hours, or salary.

So, what should you look out for? And how do you protect yourself — or your team — if these behaviours surface? Here are 7 Types of Toxic People in the Workplace that we have identified:
1. The Silent Destroyer
Appears supportive at first.
Slowly erodes your confidence with ‘helpful’ jabs.
What to do: Recognise subtle digs for what they are. Document feedback and seek out trusted mentors or managers for balanced input.
2. The Emotional Vampire
Expert at guilt-tripping you.
Creates chaos, then swoops in to ‘fix’ it.
What to do: Don’t get pulled into their drama. Step back, set clear emotional boundaries, and avoid becoming the default problem-solver.
3. The Puppet Master
Studies your weaknesses closely.
Uses your secrets as weapons later.
What to do: Be selective about what you share. Keep personal disclosures to trusted colleagues and maintain professional boundaries.
4. The Professional Victim
It’s always someone else’s fault.
Twists the story if you call them out.
What to do: Stick to facts and evidence. Don’t get caught in circular blame games. Where possible, communicate in writing.
5. The Covert Aggressor
All charm in public.
Quietly cruel when no one’s watching.
What to do: Document incidents and, if needed, escalate through HR or management. Books like Snakes in Suits by Paul Babiak and Robert D. Hare explore how these personalities mask behaviour until it’s too late.
6. The Chronic Critic
Masks insults as ‘honesty’.
Picks at your flaws to feel powerful.
What to do: Separate useful feedback from personal attacks. Don’t internalise unfair criticism — challenge calmly, or disengage.
7. The Boundary Breaker
Ignores your limits repeatedly.
Tests how much you’ll tolerate.
What to do: Set limits clearly, repeat them consistently, and enforce consequences when boundaries are crossed.
Why Gen Z Won’t Tolerate Toxicity
Unlike older generations who may have felt pressure to “just put up with it”, younger professionals are re-shaping workplace expectations.
Mental health comes first. Gen Z openly discusses mental health and sees protecting it as non-negotiable. Toxic behaviours — from bullying to gaslighting — clash with these values.
Work–life balance is a priority. Many are unwilling to sacrifice personal well-being for a job, regardless of salary.
They vote with their feet. A study on toxic leadership showed that employees under toxic bosses experience lower satisfaction, higher stress, and stronger turnover intentions (PMC 2022). For Gen Z, leaving quickly is often preferable to enduring.
They value supportive leadership. McKinsey notes that young employees expect managers to be mentors, not micromanagers. Toxic managers or colleagues undermine that expectation.
As Tessa West’s Jerks at Work argues, tolerating bad behaviour isn’t just personally damaging — it creates ripple effects across teams and organisations.
What Organisations Can Do
It’s not enough to identify toxic behaviour. Businesses must act — especially if they want to attract and retain the younger generation.
Promote transparency. Create safe channels (HR, anonymous feedback tools) for employees to raise concerns.
Encourage mentorship. Younger employees thrive when supported by trusted mentors who model healthy workplace behaviour.
Set cultural standards. Books like The No Asshole Rule by Robert Sutton emphasise that culture must actively discourage destructive behaviours.
Support leaders. Toxic leadership is particularly damaging. Organisations should invest in leadership training and hold managers accountable.
Protecting Yourself
Even if your organisation is slow to act, there are steps you can take:
Trust your instincts — if a relationship feels draining, it probably is.
Seek allies. Toxic people often thrive in isolation.
Document behaviours. This not only validates your experience but provides evidence if escalation is necessary.
Prioritise self-care. Protecting your mental health outside work is just as important as boundary-setting inside it.
As Surviving the Toxic Workplace by Linnda Durre suggests, resilience strategies and external support systems can help reduce the impact.
7 Types of Toxic People in the Workplace: Final Thoughts
Toxic people will always exist, but tolerating them is no longer the norm — especially for the younger generation. Spotting the signs early helps you protect your confidence, your energy, and your career. For businesses, addressing toxic behaviour is not just about creating harmony; it’s about survival in a competitive market where talent chooses culture over salary.
FAQs
1. What makes a workplace toxic for Gen Z?
A lack of respect, poor boundaries, and disregard for mental health are red flags that younger professionals won’t ignore.
2. How do toxic colleagues affect mental health?
They increase stress, reduce life satisfaction, and contribute to burnout, according to a 2025 review.
3. Why do younger employees leave toxic jobs faster?
Gen Z values alignment with personal values over stability; if the environment feels unsafe, they leave rather than endure.
4. What can leaders do to prevent toxic workplace behaviour?
Create cultural norms that discourage bullying, invest in leadership training, and enforce accountability at all levels.
5. How can I set healthy boundaries at work?
Be clear about your limits, communicate them assertively, and follow through consistently when boundaries are crossed.



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